30 [F4M] NEW YORK #online/- mistress seeking to find a committed sub for a long time dom/sub

Hello everyone, How is/was your day? As the case my be, As the title says I’m writing this ad to seek for a long term submissive as I’m a dominant mistress and I truly adore and admire sincere submissive men.

What you must understand is that,being a submissive doesn't mean you're someone's door-mat. It doesn't mean you're weak. its means you are strong.Strong enough to know your desires and express them,strong enough to relent your control and experience pushing your boundaries.

I am seeking for a submissive partner where we both feel safe and comfortable to exposed and explore with our kinks together also learning new kinks together to ensure we establish a long term dom/sub relationship. I have a lot of different kinks that I'd like to explore and i'm very open minded shout learning new kinks as well which include Face-sitting,SPH ,organsm control,Joi,feminization and sissification ,Role play,toy play,latex, degrading and humiliation (limited as the case may be) ,edging, feet, chastity,pegging and of course jerking off instructions this and many more i want us to explore together with me in control. I know It's not easy,that's why I Want subs who know what they want

You must be obedient to me which means You will be expected to follow all my orders and tasks with pleasure failure will result in some form of discipline or punishment, this will vary depending on what amuses or feel as positive reinforcement by me. Being obedient demonstrates to me that you respect my authority and will listen to my commands without question. This will also help me with training you into the my pet, sissy,bitch,slave, baby or what ever position you are put into.


Outside this BDSM lifestyle, i have other hobbies which include cooking, writing, playing the violin, listen to few music genres too. singing(still learning), also looking for a someone we can talk about hobbies and other matters not necessarily bdsm because, Sometimes Instead of belittling or degrading submissive men, I prefer to praise and celebrate them for their submissiveness. For example - there are many different kinks out there, such as cuckolding, feminization/sissification, and chastity, and they are often tied to humiliation, degradation, and so forth. And there is truly nothing wrong with that for those who enjoy it, consensually, and whatnot. But personally…I enjoy approaching such things from a different, more positive and affirming angle…because men who truly, consensually enjoy those things greatly impress me buy its all depending on the mistress and sub’s chemistry.
NB: you must be 18+(nobody is too old) and I’m no racist.

So having said all this, If you are one or you by any chance know anyone who is, Please do well to message me, I’m looking forward to hearing from you. So if you interested kindly message me on Kik Godessblarrais. or goggle hangout mommygoddess12@gmail.com