30 [F4M] #NY #Online Looking for submissive guys who are interested in long term relationship!

Hey there, everyone!






As the title of this post says, I'm looking for a submissive guy to have a long term relationship with. Due to my location, the relationship will likely start as online only in the beginning. However, it'd be neat if it could progress to something in real life overtime.






Anyway, below are some more detailed information about myself and what I'm looking for. I've taken a long time to write them all, so please read through them all before sending me a message!








**- About me -**






I'm 30F, ethnicity white, and living in New York . I'm 6’1 in height. Fair skin. Short blond hair. I think I look fairly attractive, but I don't really look like a dominant. I bet you'd think I'm a submissive if you were to know me in real life






I'm a huge homebody. My work is 100% work from home since before COVID was a thing and I'm also an introvert with only few close friends, so my life might seem a bit boring to most people. My day to day activity is mostly working , reading dumb romantic novels (My life is already tiring enough to read those novels with complicated plot), playing console games (Nintendo Switch, DS, PS Vita, I prefer handheld consoles), and sometimes playing dumb gacha games as a F2P to pass the time.






Despite my almost sedentary lifestyle, I like eating healthy (I've been eating IF/OMAD for years now). I've also been exercising daily these days, just half an hour exercise though, nothing too fancy, but hey at least it's a start!






My attachment style is Fearful Avoidant. Deep inside, I have this really ingrained fear of betrayal and low self worth (despite outwardly appearing confident). I'm not proud to say that I've one-sidedly ended relationships before because I thought they were not as invested anymore or about to dump me so I'll just dump them first... That was before I know my attachment style. Now that I've known more about it, I've made up my mind to be less impulsive and have less assumption in others.








**- What I'm looking for -**






I'm looking for a submissive guys who meet these criteria.






\* Age range 23-70. I feel like any younger / older than that would make it hard to communicate with each other due to too many differences.






\* I prefer guys that are bigger than me (taller & more muscular) because I feel the power dynamic is just much more interesting that way. That said, I don't have any particular requirement in this aspect.(Just preference) so all can come in,






\* I have nothing against people who like casual relationships, but they don't really do anything to me. I'm mostly looking for someone who are also looking for a serious relationship. Ideally, I'd like to have a boyfriend who's also my sub[ if it would get to that extent tho] . Not into any public play other than subtle chivalrous acts (holding bags, opening doors, etc).






\* Service-oriented. I really love guys who are good at domestic chores.






\* Would be great if you share some of my mutual interests. Maybe we could bond as gaming buddies initially? Then again, as long you're interested in learning more about my interests and not discount them, that's fine too.






\* Preferably also someone who is a homebody like me. If you're someone who like to frequent bars every weekend, I don't think we'll really match up in real life.






\* Have a job that has flexible schedule / living arrangement (otherwise, it'd be hard for us to meet up)








**- My idea of femdom -**






What I want mostly is gender-swapped version of normal relationship. I like the idea of being the one to initiate sexual stuff (being approached irks me). I think my idea of femdom is closer FLR / role reversal without the gender-swapped clothing (I still prefer masculine-looking guys rather than femboys). Then again, I'm also into some of the BDSM kink like bondage (guys in bondage is just \*chef's kiss\*), chastity, spanking, feet worship, etc (I'm mostly into the "softer" ones). It's just that for me, I can go without all those stuff as I long as I can have the power exchange dynamic.






I like having the sub be the object of desire in the relationship, so I'm not really gonna dress up in leather catsuit and we're not gonna match up if that's what you're looking for. I personally think guys look very attractive and am looking forward to have you dress you in various costumes (it's not necessarily feminine clothing though).






I'd ideally love to have a 24/7 exchange dynamic, but it's not gonna be "scenes" all the time. Maybe our weekend can be us lazying on the couch together with you resting near my feet. Or, maybe when I play games on my phone you can massage my feet gently. Or, when you cook food in a naked apron, I might grope you from behind... I like daily stuff like that more than full-blown play. I just want to have a relationship like normal couples, but with the FLR / femdom seasoning on top.





**- Message me! -**






If you've read through this all, thank you for taking the the time! Please include "\[IREADITALL\]" on your message so I know you've read my post. If you don't include it, I'll have to sadly delete your message.






Disclaimer: If you're only looking for an online-based play, we might not be suitable. Please keep that in mind before messaging me!






If what you've read so far interests you, please send me a message on Reddit!






Please include the following information in your message:






\- Your basic physical information (age, height, weight, country you're currently living, ethnicity)






\- Additional information about you (hobbies, expertise, jobs, etc. Please feel free to include as many details as possible!)






\- Lastly, your idea of femdom. What is your ideal relationship like?


Edit: if you have not gotten any messages back from me it would be the fault of kik and I think it has been glitching, I am still active and still looking for who to serve me if interested send me a good detailed message on Snapchat: morganmoore6384 or WhatsApp: 507 788 8158 I won’t reply to a low effort message thanks