me Joe just show you a picture of me just me and my wedding dress the plan was very different dress not today but I might have felt different on the day so yeah howl overweight when you get pregnant it's going to cause anybody to have a miscarriage I'm really talking about my journey but I know that being overweight you know when I got pregnant the first time and then had a Healthy King Keto miscarriage and when I got pregnant the second time and had a miscarriage I was overweight and very very unhealthy with very very poor eating habits I mean showing the picture of you and Dad closer which ones that just having shoulders ya know understand um yeah when I got pregnant the third time which is when I got pregnant with Joe I